I've had ten engine shutdowns in my career and a handful of genuinely bad moments at sea. The pattern in every one: the crews that practised were calm, and the crews that hadn't were chaos. The procedures themselves are simple. The difference is whether your family has physically walked through them on your boat.
We run this as a family session, not a lecture. Your spouse learns to stop the boat and make a Mayday call. Your kids learn their muster spot and their one job. You learn to run the response instead of doing everything yourself. Then we drill it on the water until it's boring — which is exactly what an emergency response should be.
